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Positive Thinking

Being Positive is an outlook in life in which using positive words and positive phrases, and thinking daily positive thoughts become the habit, priority and the guiding philosophy in one’s life.

Why be positive?

It is simply better than the alternative. As Churchill said, “For myself, I am an optimist – it does not seem to be much use being anything else.”

It is important, however, to realize that a positive mental attitude is not meant to be a cure-all for all our troubles. But, here is where it scores:

of course you can also develop your personality on similar lines. Note the word similar, not COPY. You can’t copy. That would be against your personality make up. You have your own positive attributes, which you should not suppress, otherwise you would be branded as a copier, and a fake. That’s something surely you would not like.

What really you should be doing is to assess your personality traits carefully. By all means seek professional help. That is best. Or, if you are queasy about it, write down, frankly, what your positives are, and what your negatives are. Try and match your positives with negatives. If you are a truthful person, and you can’t tell a lie, then obviously, you should not try to remove the negative trait of not being able to tell a lie! That militates against your basic character of telling the truth.. doesn’t it? So you have to weigh the various options and come up with basic traits that you can possibly modify and become a better person.

1. Avoid criticism: This applies to self-criticism, as well as criticizing others. Avoiding self criticism does not imply we must not admit to our mistakes; in fact we should – at least to ourselves – but constantly berating ourselves over them is something else, and that should be avoided. Learn from the mistake, and move on; take the juice and spit out the rest.

Same deal applies for other’s mistakes as well; instead of seizing up the opportunity to put them down, realize that a mistake just makes them as much a human as you are.

There are other traits that you can modify. If you are shy, you could try saying good morning to those whom you meet, quietly, and should not feel uneasy if you get strange looks the first time you do it. After all, they are not used to it! Over time, they would wonder and accept that you are changing. Change, slowly, is the catch here.

3. Change your daily vocabulary: Replace phrases in your daily vocabulary such as “Impossible”, “I can’t do it” with more positive phrases such as “I can, if I put in the necessary time and effort” or “I can, if that is my current priority in life” or “I can figure it out”. Such phrases, while acknowledging the task requires effort, still do not verbally diminish your capacity to do it should the need arise in future

Resource Author Francisco Rodriguez Higueras
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